“He is nonetheless hanging on to each f—ing factor I ever did.”
Jeff Lewis claims he and ex Gage Edward just lately rekindled their romance — however, shock shock, it “did not work out” … once more.
Throughout Wednesday’s episode of his Sirius XM radio present, “Jeff Lewis Reside,” the “Flipping Out” star stated he and Edward dated for 3 months and went on a dozen dates, earlier than Edward in the end broke it off.
Lewis, 51, started by noting that he and Edward began “relationship” once more “a few month” after Lewis and his on-again-off-again boyfriend Scott Anderson break up. “We went on in all probability about 12 dates,” Lewis stated, including that he and Edward “spent a whole lot of time” with their 4-year-old daughter, Monroe.
The Bravo star stated he waited to debate reconnecting together with his ex on his radio present as a result of he “did not actually know what it was” — and added, “I wished us to form of quietly determine it out.”
In the end, he added, “It did not work out.”
“So principally what occurred was, we had been seeing one another for about three months,” he defined. “I need to say it was like 12 dates, a few sleepovers, plenty of dinners and breakfast with Monroe and all of that. It was cool. I used to be having a good time. I felt like, ‘Wow, perhaps my household is coming again collectively.’ I used to be having a pleasant time. I believed we had been doing effectively.”
Lewis stated he seems like he is “a greater communicator” now than he was up to now, noting that he put within the “work” through the two years that he and Edward weren’t collectively. Nevertheless, in accordance with Jeff, Gage hadn’t modified and “began pulling away” and “was very cold and hot” after they reunited.
“I did not get mad. I did not get passive-aggressive,” he stated. “I simply was like flat out, ‘Hey, can I speak to you? I really feel such as you’re being very selective together with your consideration and your affection. It feels very cold and hot. I am feeling rejected.’ I imply, I used to be like, ‘Who is that this man?'”
Up to now, Lewis stated he would have wished a solution immediately, however he stated he was “cool” within the state of affairs. “I stated, ‘Look, it is a whole lot of info. Simply marinade on it after which get again to me and let’s focus on it,'” he continued. “Three days later, ‘I feel we should always simply be mates.’ That is what I bought.”
Lewis stated he instructed Edward that he “was slightly shocked” as a result of he thought it “was going effectively” between them.
“He stated, ‘Truly, you understand, there’s a number of instances that you simply triggered me,'” Lewis claimed, “and I stated, ‘Effectively, I would not know what these triggers are since you by no means communicated with me. And had you communicated with me, we might have mentioned it within the second … perhaps I wanted to regulate my habits.'”
Addressing his visitor, psychotherapist Dr. Donna Dannenfelser, who had requested him what he in the end realized, Lewis stated, “You instructed me from the very starting that if, when this sort of state of affairs occurs, it’s a must to begin a brand new relationship.”
“He did a whole lot of s—– f—ing issues to me,” he continued, beginning to get heated. “And you understand what? I used to be prepared to neglect, forgive and begin over. However the actuality is he is not prepared to neglect. He is not prepared to start out. He is nonetheless hanging on to each f—ing factor I ever did.”
“The opposite factor too is I’ve apologized for the 6,000 issues that I’ve completed within the final 12 years intimately,” he added.
The 2 break up again in 2019 and have been embroiled in a nasty battle over custody ever since, with Lewis usually taking swipes at Edward on his present, and Gage submitting lawsuits in opposition to Jeff. Again in Might, the previous couple finally settled their custody dispute after a nasty, 26-month-long battle. Whereas Lewis and Edward clearly aren’t collectively now, Jeff stated the “excellent news” to come back out of the state of affairs is that they had been “in a position to form of heal” from their authorized battle.